We both took 401K loans
out to pay off some of the higher
balances, then the new
higher APR’s basically put us back to
the higher payments each
month. Now our paychecks are lower
each week, yet our credit
card payments are just about as high
as before. My husband
thinks things are better now but they are
worse and it’s hard to
act like all is well with this weight on my
shoulders. I can’t bear
the thought of dumping this on him.
He works so hard to
provide (I work full time as well) and it
would break my heart to
see him even close to feeling like I do.